Hi please can someone help with something! Problem posing Thanks

Ok how come when i have 3 characters in the scene or two sometimes i can't click on the other characters body! Can someone please tell me why that happens
and how to fix it thanks! its so frustrating!
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Try selecting from the Scene Tab. {and check that the item hasn't been "x"ed to not be selectable from the viewport}
Yes i did that it worked! Thanks so much for your help!
How does that x get there anyway!
It is supposed to get there only if/when we click at that same spot to make it so. Some scene sets come with items "x"ed because that's how they were saved.
Thank you so much Catherine!